Every story can have a happy ending, if you decide where it ends. That’s a paraphrase of Orson Welles who said …
“If you want a happy ending, that depends, of course, on where you stop your story.”
— Orson Welles, The Big Brass Ring
I was going to end our story on April 29, 2024 with a sweet memory of Pony meeting my father & his wife. Then I had an epiphany. I wasn’t ready to stop. My feelings were so hurt by events that transpired afterwards. “We need a test before welcoming this “new” one! Became I’m returning the test to you.” Fun fact, we never needed a test, we have our quorum.
In talking to my blood brother (dang that is cool to say), he helped me realize the error of my ways. He said & I quote “don’t let them do change who you are. Do what you want to do & stop worryng about what they do or don’t do.”
I sent a text & shocker I got a response. To say I was elated was an understatement. He called me “sweetheart.” Our relationship is fragile but my hope is back. Dang her showing up again just as I was about to let go. Bottom line, I’m stubborn. I want what I want. It’s not greedy. What’s true is that two things (at least!) can be true at once. Even things that look contradictory on the surface can be simultaneously true.
Now I’m rambling, so I will go with a song that makes me smile.