Who Does That?
Not to be confused with B asking me “Why do you do that?”
Who is stupid enough to send a planner on a Friday, at the end of the day for a meeting next week with a vague generic subject line?
Rhetorical question
But Really?!??! You couldn’t wait until I was gone for the weekend?
Who Does That?
Mean evil masochist who wants me to worry for 72+ hours.
Like it or not, in the absence of evidence people make stuff up. Human nature wants to assign a reason to everything. Without thinking too deeply, we fill in the blank when details are left out. Just how our brains process things.
I hate that I do that. I am an anxious person. Always have been, always will be.
I know in my heart this … this stuff is inconsequential. I am likely deflecting about this bullshit to avoid facing other bullshit that needs my attention. Change is inevitable. To me, change is GOOD! I am very easily bored which is why I am always on the lookout for something new. Somehow feels very personal, even if it isn’t. Guess it’s about time for me to put up or shut up.
Though as the saying goes, Don’t you cut off your nose to spite your face.
Yippee Ki Yay Muther Fuckers.
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Calgon take me away.
Completely agree with you! The woman teaching me reiki said how our brains are our problem solvers, but we use our problem solved on things that aren’t problems. Our brains use past data to predict future outcomes, which is why we get anxious. For me – Buddha’s expect nothing is the best way to approach life. When I find myself getting all worked up as I always do, I try to breathe and remember I have no damn clue. Alan watts (could I quote this guy enough?!) said: the past and future are illusions. All we have and all we will ever have is the present moment. ❤️❤️❤️ loved this post. Love you!
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Yes! I needed to read this !!! I’m really gonna try to breathe deep and expect nothing. I’ve got 2 1/2 more days to practice ❤️ expect nothing ❤️ the present is all we have ❤️
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Aww glad I could give ya perspective. It’s helping me so much. Expect nothing, appreciate everything. I’m getting a lot better at just letting my
Thoughts be. Not every thought needs to be thunk lol you got this. You’re going to have an amazing weekend, you’re gonna smile a lot, and you’re gonna find how grateful you are for every little
Thing. ❤️
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Thanks Chris!
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You’re truly welcome! Just seen those typed words on the screen, has lifted my spirits….
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