My Pain In The Ass

Billy Bob and I have been together for over 30 years. ¬†Occasionally we’re asked what’s the secret to the longevity of our union? ¬† That’s a trick question. ¬†In the big unveil, there is none. ¬†Or maybe better stated our secret and what works for us is unique to us.

Every couple has their own issues, we are not immune. ¬†The thing is … both us decided a long time ago that no matter what we do not trash¬†talk each other. ¬† He can be¬†a pain in the ass BUT he is¬†MY pain the ass. Lol ūüôā ¬†And vice versa of course.

I knew if I told someone every time I¬†got upset with my boo, then they might agree with me and see him in a different light. ¬†I didn’t want anyone to ever think less of him. ¬†Or worse, they may not agree with me and then I’d be like all what the hell?!?! Can’t you see what a prick he is being?? ¬†Just kidding. ¬†Billy Bob is not a prick. ¬†He is also not the difficult one in the relationship … you see that title belongs to me. ¬†Ultimately, private stuff stays private which shocks people because despite being a sometimes chatty person I CAN and often do NOT¬†divulge everything.

Some times people mistake love with common interests. ¬†Yet opposites can and do attract. ¬†At our core, we are strong enough to withstand our differences. ¬†We¬†are not joined at the hip. ¬†Never have been. ¬†Even if we are at the same event, he is often clear across the room. ¬†An occasional eye contact with a hey, you’ll still be my ride home right? ¬†gets me through. ¬†In the end, he allows me to fly and be free but I always know he is my safe place to land.

Just like in this song¬†You Tube Safe Place to Land. ¬†It has been¬†a musial day y’all.

As always, more to come.

Out Of Control

Whatcha gonna do when things get out of control?  Let go and let God.   If God is not your thing then maybe Mother Mary?  Let go and let  it be.

Thank you Beatles ūüé∂ūüé∂ūüé∂ once again music it doest soothe the savage beast.

As always, more to come.

Only In Texas

Well, maybe not ONLY¬†in Texas ¬†… though I’m pretty sure this is a regional thing y’all. ¬†Our parish is having its’ annual turkey dinner with none other than a turkey bingo. ¬†What’s a turkey bingo you might ask? Well it is regular bingo but the prizes include the potential to win a turkey. Then of course you don’t want to miss the arts & crafts sale. ¬†Fun times I tell ya. ¬†Check it out …¬†South Texas Living

As always, more to come.